Pushya nakshatra

Pushya is the ability to sustain life even when no one notices. It naturally takes on caretaking, organizing, responsibility for keeping things stable.

The core problem starts when care turns into obligation, and obligation into the only way of feeling one’s own worth. Pushya tolerates ingratitude poorly, though it rarely admits this even to itself. It knows how to create a sense of safety for others, but easily forgets to check whether it has enough of that safety for itself.

Its strength is preserving and reinforcing what already exists.

The price is the risk of getting so used to being the support that it stops letting anyone support it back.